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Mga Uri ng Gastos na Nagdudulot ng Utang (Ika-Apat na Bahagi)

*unang lumabas sa Bulgar, Hunyo 21, 2012

Magsawalang-bahala na lang kaya!

Marami ang nagsasabing lalong nagiging mahirap ang buhay habang dumadaan ang panahon. Pero siyempre, marami ring magandang pagbabago ang nanaganap sa paligid natin. Pero nagbubulagbulagan ang ilan sa atin sa mga ito. Puro na lang problema ang nakikita nila sa ating bansa at sa daigdig.

Kahit noon pa man, nariyan na ang pesimismo sa mundo. Nagsimula ito sa ahas na siya mismong demonyo ng Hardin ng Eden. Nilinlang ng ahas si Eve na hindi sila magiging masaya kung hindi nila kakainin ang ipinagbabawal na prutas. Sa madaling sabi, nakumbinse sila ng ahas na magsaya habang pwede pa. At ito ang simula ng totoong kalungkutan.

Ngayon, napakaraming problema sa politika na hindi naaayos. Naglipana rin ang panlilinlang sa kalakalan ng mga bangko at pagpapautang. Parang hinihila pababa ng mga politiko ang ating bansa at ang mundo. Posibleng mawalan ng halaga ang ating pera sa hinaharap. Posibleng maglaho ang savings natin kung biglang magsara ang isang bangko. Posible ring mawala ang investment na nakalaan sa pag-aaral ng mga anak natin dahil sa isang stock market crash o dahil sa biglang pagbabago ng patakaran ng gobyerno. Kung ganito lang din naman… bakit pa tayo mag-aabala na mag-ipon at maghanda para sa kinabukasan? Mabuhay sa kasalukuyan. Pagkagastusan alin man ang gusto natin. Ipagsawalang-bahala natin ang kinabukasan.

Mali ang ganoong pag-iisip! Ganoon tumatakbo ang utak ng taong iresponsable. Kapag natutunan niya ang tama, saka niya malalaman na pagbabayaran niya lahat ng maling kagawian niya. Hindi maganda ang record niya sa mga bangko at credit card. Hindi aaprubahan ang car loans niya, home loan, at kahit anong uri ng loan. Magdudusa ang kaniyang kawawang pamilya, at mapipilitan ang kaniyang pamilya na doblehin ang kayod para kumita ng mas malaki. 

Sa totoo lang, may ibang paraan. May nabasa ako tungkol sa isang tao na nagpasyang “bitiwan ang pera.” Nabubuhay siya sa pamamagitan ng mga tira-tira ng ibang tao. Namumulot siya ng mga bagay na pwede pa niyang pakinabangan. Nabubuhay siya para lang ipakita na pwede namang mabuhay kahit walang kahit anong materyal na bagay. Sa madaling salita, isa siyang pulubi.

Kung ayaw natin maging pulubi, kailangan nating tingnan ang ating bansa at ang buong mundo bilang isang kalahating baso na malapit nang mapuno, at hindi isang baso na kalahati na lang ay mauubos na. Parehong kalahati lang ang laman ng baso, pero nagkakaiba lang ng pananaw kung mapupuno ba ito o mauubos na. Ang totoo, napakaraming oportunidad sa ating paligid at balang-araw, may kukuha sa oportunidad na ito. Kapag optimistiko tayo, hahanap tayo ng paraan para paunlarin ang ating buhay. At habang pinapaunlad natin ang ating buhay, nakakatulong tayo sa ating maliit na paraan para lalong mapaunlad ang ating bansa.

Kung napagpasyahan mong maniwala na uunlad ang buhay, siguruhin na hindi ka magkakaroon ng malaki at walang silbing utang. Sundin din ang prinsipyo ng pag-iipon at pagpapalago ng iyong yaman.

(itutuloy)

Mga Uri ng Gastos na Nagdudulot ng Utang (Ikatlong Bahagi)

* Unang lumabas sa Bulgar, Hunyo 16, 2012

Ang pagiging “spoiled brat” ang ikatlong kagawian na posibleng magdulot ng mga utang na hindi naman kailangan.

Hindi ako psychologist pero tinitingnan ko lang ang mga praktikal na sitwasyon. Tingnan ang reaksyon ng mga bata habang sila’y lumalaki. Sa simula, kailangan nilang makuha ang kailangan nila sa panahong kailangan nila. Hindi hihinto ang gutom na sanggol sa pag-iyak hangga’t hindi ito pinapakain. Habang lumalaki ang sanggol, hindi siya titigil hangga’t hindi niya nakukuha ang gusto niya; parang isip-sarili ang ganitong pag-uugali at tinatawag lang natin itong “asal-bata”. Tungkulin ng mga magulang na turuan ang bata na hindi pwedeng lagi na lang niyang makukuha lahat ng gusto niya, lalo na kung ang gusto niya ay hindi nakabubuti sa kaniya o sa mga tao sa paligid. Ang batang walang disiplina ay tinatawag na “spoiled brat”. Sa kasamaang palad, maraming bata ang tumatanda nang hindi natututunan ang disiplina at pasensya. Kahit matanda na, gusto pa rin nilang makuha agad lahat ng gusto nila. Patuloy silang nag-aasal-bata, patuloy silang nagiging “spoiled brats”.

Ang mga matatandang spoiled brats ay asal-bata rin pagdating sa kanilang paghawak ng pera at paggastos. Nagiging shopaholic ang ilan. Iniisip ng isang shopaholic na kailangan niyang magshopping upang maging masaya. Mabuti sana kung napakayaman niya at kaya niyang magshopping nang magshopping. Pero para sa karamihan, nagdudulot ang sobrang pagshoshoping ng kakulangan ng pera at mas masama pa… utang sa credit card. Katulad ng isang alkoholiko, may mga pagkakataon na maiisip niyang parang hinuhukay na niya ang sariling libingan, pero mahihirapan na siyang pigilan ang paghuhukay. Kailangan talaga niyang magbago. Dapat niyang maintindihan na hindi siya kayang pasayahin ng pagshoshopping dahil nagdudulot na ito ng napakaraming problema. Sinumang kinukulang sa pera o kaya’y may utang sa credit card ay hindi magiging masaya. Napakaraming tao ang hahabol sa kaniya para maningil. May tao bang pwedeng maging masaya kung alam niyang napakaraming tao ang naghahabol sa kaniya para maningil?

Kailangang maghanap ang shopaholic ng ibang paraan para maging masaya. Kahit na kailanganin niyang kumonsulta sa isang psychiatrist, dapat niyang gawin ito agad bago siya magdulot ng napakalaking problema para sa kaniyang sarili at sa kaniyang pamilya. Kung hindi, matutunan niya ang kaniyang leksyon sa mahirap na paraan. Karaniwan, nagiging miserable ang buhay ang shopaholic na may limitadong budget dahil tutugisin siya ng mga credit card companies. Mapipilitan siyang bayaran ang mga bagay na hindi na kapakipakinabang at ang masama pa riyan, wala na siyang per o credit para magshopping.

Sumali sa aming mga seminars.  Para sa detalye, pasyalan ang www.colaycofoundation.com o tumawag sa 6373731 o 6373741.

(Itutuloy)

Mga Uri ng Gastos na Nagdudulot ng Utang (Ikalawang Bahagi)

*Unang lumabas sa Bulgar, noong Hunyo 14, 2012

Ang mga tukso na hindi naaayon sa iyong pinansiyal na layunin ay isa pang kagawian na posibleng magdulot ng utang. Tandaan na lagi kong pinapayo na gumawa ng Statement of Assets and Liabilities (SAL) para malaman nang eksakto kung nasaan ka ngayon sa iyong buhay pinansiyal. Lalo ninyong mas maunawaan ang kahalagahan ng SAL kung sabihin ko sa inyong pareho lang ito sa SALN (Statement of Assets, Liabilities and Net Worth) na laging nababanggit noong impeachment hearings ni Chief Justice Corona.

Kailangan mo ring gumawa ng Budget Forecast na nagpapakita ng iyong kita, ipon, at gastos (Income – Savings = Expenses). Kapag alam mo na ang iyong Budget, at iyong SAL, pwede mo nang gawin ang iyong Personal Financial Plan na siyang nagsasabi kung magkano ang perang kailangan mong makamit sa isang espesipikong panahon sa hinaharap. Kasama rin dapat sa iyong plano kung paano mo ii-invest ang iyong savings para lumago ang iyong SAL. Kapag regular mong ginawa ang iyong SAL nang hindi bababa sa 2 beses kada taon, maiintindihan mo kung lumalago ba ang iyong kayamanan o hindi.

Napakaraming tukso na magiging dahilan para makalimutan mo ang iyong mga layuning pinansiyal. Karamihan sa mga tuksong ito ay galing sa iyong mga kamag-anak, kaibigan, at kapitbahay na hindi nagplaplano para sa kanilang pinansiyal na kinabukasan. O kaya naman, mas malaki ang kita nila kaysa sa iyo kaya kumpara sa iyo, mas malaki ang ang natitira nilang pera para sa mga regular na gastusin.

Ang binyag ay isa pang halimbawa kung saan nagkakaiba ang pananaw ng mga tao. May ilang nagsasabi na dapat malaking pagdiriwang ang binyag dahil isang beses lang ito nangyayari sa buhay ng binibinyagan. Mas ipinagdidiwang ito lalo na para sa panganay na anak. Kapag nagpasya kayo ng malaking pagdiriwang, magbibigay ng suhestiyon ang mga kamag-anak at kaibigan tungkol sa espesyal na damit pang binyag, lugar na paggaganapan, at iba pa. May kaakibat na gastos ang lahat ng ito, at makakabawas pa sa ipon mo. Hindi man lang mag-eenjoy o malalaman ng iyong baby kung ano ang nangyayari, baka nga hindi pa siya maging kumportable sa kaguluhan. Imbes na gumastos nang malaki sa binyag, ang perang matitipid ay pwedeng gamitin na lamang para magbukas ng savings plan para sa inyong anak. Mas mag-eenjoy pa siya dito sa panahanong kailangan niya ito.

Pipillin ng mga taong may disiplinadong pananaw ang isang simple at tahimik na binyag. Hindi kailangang sumunod sa gusto ng mga kamag-anak at kaibigan. Kahit na magbigay sila ng pera para sa binyag, pwede mo na lang itabi ang pera bilang ipon para sa bata. Pero siyempre, baka hindi sila magbigay ng kontribusyon kung walang pagdiriwang. Kung gayon, ikumpara kung magkano ang pagkakaiba ng isang simpleng pagdiriwang laban sa malaking pagdiriwang. Sapat ba o higit pa ang kontribusyon ng mga kakilala para bayaran ang diperensyang ito? Siguro kung tiyak ka na sapat o higit pa ang kontribusyon para pondohan ang karagdagang gastusin ng isang malaking handaan, hindi ka nila matutukso na gumastos nang higit sa iyong budget.

Sumali sa aming mga seminars. Para sa detalye, pasyalan ang www.colaycofoundation.com o tumawag sa 6373731 o 6373741

(Itutuloy)

Mga Uri ng Gastos na Nagdudulot ng Utang (Part 1)

Unang lumabas sa Bulgar noong ika-9 ng Hunyo, 2012

Maraming tao ang gumagastos sa paraang nagdudulot ng utang. Ibabahagi ko sa inyo ang ilang kagawian sa paggastos na nagiging dahilan kaya nagkukulang sa cash ang mga tao at napipilitan silang mamuhay sa credit card o kaya’y mabaon sa utang sa credit card. Sa pag-analisa sa mga kagawiang ito, bibigyang-diin ang mga prinsipyo na matagal ko nang ibinabahagi sa mga nagdaang taon. Basahin ang mga sumusunod at isipin kung paano iwasan ang mga ito.

1.)    Bonus – Sabihin nating nakatanggap ka ng bonus na P10,000.00 Ano ang gagawin mo dito? Maraming tao ang hindi lamang ito uubusin. Sa totoo lang, gagamitin pa nila ito bilang downpayment para sa isang mahal na bagay. Sa kasamaang palad, kadalasan ay higit pa sa kanilang budget ang installment ng bagay na iyon. Karaniwan, sapat lamang dapat sa regular na gastos ang iyong budget . Hindi dapat magdagdag sa iyong regular na gastos kung wala namang permanenteng dagdag sa iyong kita. Hindi regular na kita ang bonus. Pagkatapos mo ito tanggapin, wala nang parating sa hinarap.

Kung gagawa ka ng budget para sa iyong regular na kita at gastusin, lalong dapat na pagplanuhan kung paano gagamitin ang bonus. Tandaan ang unang prinsipyo na Bayaran Muna ang Sarili (“Pay Yourself First”). Hinihikayat ko kayo na sundin ang formula, Kita bawas Ipon = Gastos (“Income minus Savings = Expenses”). Ang bonus ay income din kaya dapat pa ring sundin ang formula. Itabi ang 10-20% ng bonus bilang savings.

Pwede mo ring gamitin ang kaunting bahagi ng bonus para malibang ang iyong sarili at pamilya. Pero siguruhin na hindi ito masyadong mahal at angkop sa antas ng iyong kita.

Kausapin ang iyong asawa at/o pamilya tungkol sa bonus. Ano ang mga priyoridad ninyo na dapat pagtuunan ng pansin para masulit ang bonus? Dahil limitado lang ang halagang ito, huwag magkakamaling isipin na pwede niyong gamitin sa isang uri ng gastos na posibleng humigit pa kaysa sa kaya ninyo. Baka mas makabuti kung gamitin na lang iyon sa mga regular na gastusin, o kaya’y ilagay iyon lahat sa savings.

Ang bonus lamang ang karagdagan income na matatanggap mo. Maliban na lamang kung makakuha ka ng salary increase, wala kang karagdagang pera na ipambabayad sa mga regular na installment payments. Huwag kailanmang bumili ng mga bagay na may regular na installment payments na hindi mo kayang panindigan.

(itutuloy)

Seminar School Plus- Credit Cards

Got credit card woes? Clueless on how to properly use a credit card? Let Armand Q. Bengco, Executive Director of the Colayco Foundation show you the basic ropes about credit cards. Here’s the Credit Card episode from Seminar School Plus!

Catch Seminar School Plus on RHTV (Skycable Channel 67, Dream Digital Satellite TV Channel 10), every Saturday from 1:00 pm to 2:00 pm!

Stop Aggravating Your Man! Try out these Shopping Tips for Every Woman

by Guita T. Gopalan

Women and shopping – men cringe when these two words are put together. They think of the time they’ll spend (aka waste) walking around like a puppy following their women go from one shop to another, try on a thousand or so dresses and eventually just buy one. Or they think of how much money was spent on that bag or pair of shoes that she ‘just had to have’ which could have been spent on something much more practical like a new tire for the car.

Stop aggravating your man by being an effective shopper (or encourage your woman to read this article).

These three tips will not only help you plan and spend wisely, it’s guaranteed to help you and your man stay sane when shopping!

1. Plan to Spend. Spending is not bad…It’s one of the most important aspects of personal finances. It becomes a big problem when you spend impulsively. When you want to buy shoes or a bag or some other things that seem both a need and want…plan to spend for it. Give up spending on something else and save up to buy what you want. This ensures that you will always be on budget!

2. Go ROBO! Know exactly what you want to get (or at least narrow down the choices) by going ROBO – research online, buy offline. With the click of a mouse, you will easily be able to compare prices and user recommendations. You could easily also just buy it online and save yourself the trip to the mall!

3. Collaborate. Instead of just dragging your man along when you are going shopping, shop together. That means going to stores where the both of you can pick up things for yourselves, or giving each one an equal amount of time. It also means seeking and ACCEPTING his opinion about what you are planning to buy.

These are only a few things you can keep in mind when shopping with your man. More can be found in Francisco J. Colayco’s new book – Easy Money Para sa Kababaihan, available in all leading bookstores nationwide.

Guita T. Gopalan is the Managing Director of Colayco Foundation and is a member of the OneCORE Success Center.

Financial literacy is not about numbers…it’s all about mindset

Attitude

I mostly talk about how you can increase your income by setting your financial goals, investing, going into business, and other similar activities.  Let me share a story that reinforces the title of this article.  Your attitude will make the difference!

There is a story from The Simple Truths of Service by Ken Blanchard and Barbara Glanz, famous American authors about a simple cab driver named Harvey.  He doubled his income from the previous year and in the third year even quadrupled it.  He did this by doing the same job that he had been doing for many years.  He just changed his attitude completely after hearing Wayne Dyer on radio saying “ Stop complaining!  Differentiate yourself from your competition. Don’t be a duck. Be an eagle.  Ducks quack and complain. Eagles soar above the crowd.”

Harvey said that he used to be like most cab drivers, a duck always quacking and complaining.  He decided to change his attitude and looked at the other cabs and their drivers.  The cabs were dirty, the drivers were unfriendly and the customers were unhappy.  So he made a few changes at a time and when the customers responded well, he did some more.

Little by little, some of the changes he made were: 1) He kept his cab spotlessly clean.  2) He became extra friendly, greeting his passenger and telling them that he wanted to bring them to his destination in the quickest, safest and cheapest way.  3) He asked them if they wanted to listen to any particular radio station.  4) He even had drinks available for them. 5) He offered them something to read.  6) He asked if they wanted to talk or just to be left with their own thoughts.

After a while, Harvey’s customers called him for appointments and if he is busy, he asks a reliable cab driver friend to pick up the customer for a commission.

It is so easy to immediately say that this story is only possible in America.  But even within America, the author said that he told the story of Harvey to at least 50 cab drivers and yet only 2 of them took the idea and developed themselves.  The others just thought up of all the reasons why they couldn’t improve anything.  This just goes to show that it is not the kind of job or the place.  It is the attitude of the person.

This is the same attitude that is needed by everyone who wants to change his lifestyle and save.  So many write me that they need to earn more money or they want to invest but they don’t have the money.  They want me to tell them step-by-step what to do.  Nobody can do that.  Each person has to stop complaining, find what it is in his life that he can improve on and work on it.

Financial Literacy

Perhaps the issue why there is so much complaining and less action is the lack of financial literacy.  While most everyone is driven by the desire to earn money, how many have a real understanding of how to keep and manage money?” People do not seriously understand why they should save and what they should do.  In informal surveys I have made during talks and seminars, I am amazed at how few have a clear understanding of what wealth means (i.e. when is one wealthy?).  Less than ten percent have an idea of how much money or earning assets they should have by the time they want to or have to stop working.  Very few have clear personal goals at specific future dates.

This lack of goals and plans are in any income class. There are poor people who will do anything to get themselves out of poverty.  Some succeed and some don’t. Sadly, there are poor people who just accept their fate and cannot see how they can get out of it.  On the other hand, there are rich people who are driven to make sure they do not have to downgrade their lifestyle in the future.  There are also rich people who sadly have the mistaken notion that their wealth will always be available forever.  They wake up one day to sadly learn that everything is gone.  These are, to me, the sorriest lot.  They could have shared so much to so many.

There is stage that anyone, rich or poor, can achieve where one is happy because he considers himself wealthy.  One can only reach this balance with the right attitude similar to Harvey’s.

But even with the right attitude, one still needs to have some skills to move in the right direction.  One of these skills is Financial Literacy. In simple terms, Financial Literacy is knowing how to keep what you earn and how to do more with what you keep.

But before anything else, one must understand, know and accept that wealth does not necessarily mean having millions and millions of pesos. What is prosperity for one may not necessarily be wealth for another.  Lifestyle defines this for each person.  The rich and famous need to spend so much more to maintain their lifestyle.  Many envy them because of their seeming “fairy-tale” lives but are they really to be envied?  It is so ironic that so many rich people are deep in debt and would give anything to live a simple life.

In reality, having money, even lots of money, is no assurance that one is automatically wealthy and can therefore afford to stop working for money.  Wealth and money means nothing unless it is matched with time and expenses.

Are you wealthy if you had PhP 1 Million in your pocket?  What about PhP 2 Million, PhP 10 Million or PhP 100 Million?  The answer lies in your expense profile.  If your living expenses are very high because of your lifestyle, or perhaps because you have so much debt, then maybe even if you had PhP 100 Million, you would still be financially short.

So if you had cash and other financial assets that can support your lifestyle for say ten years, would you consider yourself wealthy?

Wealth or kayamanan has to be also based on how much time you have left in this world.  If you are in retirement and have ten years to go, then you are wealthy enough if you had financial assets good to support your lifestyle for ten years.  But if you only have resources good for five years, then you are not wealthy enough.   In this case, you still have to grow your financial assets or lower your lifestyle to match your financial capability.

In effect, people who are happy to live simple lives are the wealthiest of all.  Again, note that it is the attitude and mindset that defines the situation.  In the final analysis, wealth is nothing more than having the money to fund your particular needs at any given time. Being wealthy simply means having sustained financial resources to support your chosen lifestyle even without working. It is a situation where one is ready for emergencies and for the inevitable retirement stage.

With the right attitude and preparation, wealth should be within reach of every income earner.  One only needs to develop the skills.  This is what I try to impart in my books, articles and seminars.  Email info@colaycofoundation.com if you have questions.

Clarity of purpose (Purpose-driven Investing)

Some things may seem so basic and should be part of common sense.  But actually, many do not think out issues carefully. People do things mostly on impulse and those who are not impulsive, analyze a little and then just assume things will work out on what they have decided after partial thought.  They take action based on goals that are not sufficiently clear or detailed.  The biggest example of this phenomenon is the hundreds of thousands of OFWs who invest their hard-earned savings on businesses offered to them that are clearly unsuitable to their particular situations. And why did they invest?  They were simply driven by their general desire to earn more money.  The how, the when and the why issues do not even get serious attention.  They rush to invest without defining their expectations.  Worse, they do not even compute what they will make out of it versus the possible risks of failure.  They invest based on the assurance of trusted friends and relations who are not even qualified nor experienced enough to give them such advice.

This kind of confused decision process is demonstrated every day.  It is so common for OFW families to rush investing in tricycles, FX taxis, sari-sari stores, etc, etc. When asked why they invested, nine out of ten are not able to say why except to say, “I wanted to get into business and make money”.  Their objective of getting into business is valid.  But in reality, the investment does not serve the real purpose of making money.  The thought processes, unfortunately, end there.  No further thinking goes into asking whether or not the particular business will, in fact, make money for them. They listened to stories that their investments would be profitable based on the experiences of others.  They should have at least asked themselves two more questions. What is it that I should earn and how will this investment make me earn that amount? The failure to ask these questions is precisely because people generally do not define their purpose clear enough so that they can correctly study it sufficiently think it through before they decide.

Cultural nuances

There are three Tagalog phrases that, to my mind, reflect perhaps this cultural flaw in our thinking processes.  These are: “Pwede Na (That’s good enough), Medyo (More or less) and Akala ko” (I thought that, or I assumed that).   These words show thinking that is not exact and accurate.  Unfortunately, this kind of thinking finds itself in the work place resulting in mediocre performance.

Overseas, the Filipino worker behaves differently. He is extremely productive and the reason is because he is given specific and detailed work objectives, which are measured on a regular basis. The reason is clear. Rules and other work-related systems are required.  Supervision is consistent.  Proper tools are provided and the workers are given feedback of their productivity very quickly and regularly. There is no room for imprecision.

In most local organizations, decision processes are mostly influenced by behavioral or cultural feelings and practices.  Short cuts are more the rule than the exception. Any questions or doubts, if any, are resolved based on assumptions.  Even where strict rules on quality control and management systems are in place, the quality of action still, more often than not, falls below standards.    Supervision is perceived most lacking when it comes to service industries.  When supervisors face a situation where they have to choose to stick by the rules versus cutting work time or “hurting the feelings” of either clients or co-employees, rationalization wins.  For example, they start thinking that the employees will feel bad if their attention is called and cannot work well anyway.  So, they allow them not to follow the strict rules.  Or they need to meet a deadline so they allow short-cuts.  All the other employees see these bad examples.  Eventually, everybody follows the wrong standard and quality suffers.

How would you overcome these behavioral or cultural practices?  One way is to start on the financial aspect of your life.  After all, finance will probably be the most precise part of your personal life.  Practice in being precise in the management of personal finances, encourages care in the thinking process in work, family and other relationships.

The first exercise in managing personal finances is to know where you are financially at any point in life.  Our CFE Team gives the basic principles and “commandments” but reminds you that you cannot start on a journey without a map.  A Personal Statement of Assets and Liabilities and Personal Income and Expense Statement are requirements to get started.  With these tools, you can be more precise in moving forward to make your Personal Financial Plan.  With such a plan, you can draw up alternative road maps to reach the same personal financial goal and to better assess the opportunities that come up.  No short cuts, no “Pwede na”, no Akala Ko”, no “Medyo” can be allowed.

MONEY IS A FAMILY MATTER

Your personal financial plan should always involve your family.  After all, you are supporting a family member or relative, one way or the other.  It is common sense to involve them in the planning cycle from the very beginning.  But you might be tempted to give a different picture of your earnings either higher or lower than what it actually is.  In truth, family/relatives left behind will always think that you will earn a big amount and that there will always be enough to share with them.

When you first leave, you will not know the exact circumstances of your employment and living conditions.  It is best that you do not make promises to send any money precisely because of the unknown.  However, it is best to understand and agree on exactly what your family priorities are, order of importance and amounts for each that the family needs.  Send only the amounts needed for each priority in the order of importance.

Before leaving, make it a point to bond with your family.  Include budgeting and coping with the financial crisis as part of your bonding activity.  An admirable couple I know share their bonding activities.  They have two teenage boys who they believe are their biggest helpers in saving and managing their family finances.

They talk about money matters to their kids to show them that they are trusted and considered matured and responsible.  They are allowed involvement and some degree of independence.  They can suggest where the cuts in expenses will be and they know that part of the savings will go to their vacation fund.

Here are some of their practices:

–          Have a “positive” attitude during discussions on money matters by sounding confident, honest and open.

–          Ask a lot of questions to find out where the kids are coming from and there should be no lectures especially no  “talk down” as if the kids do not know anything.  Treat them with respect.

–          Old money disagreements should never be brought up again.

–          Have a vacation fund.  Everybody agrees on where the next vacation should be with a target cost.  Everybody agrees on the amount to be slashed from the household budget that will go into the vacation fund.

–          Before going to the grocery, everybody agrees to a grocery list.  Everybody goes to the grocery and strictly follows the list…very strict rule “ What is not on the list, cannot be bought.”

–          Agreement not to have any househelp. Everyone agrees to what each person is assigned in house chores.  No need to pay or incentivize anyone because the goal is to have a vacation as planned.  The vacation is already the incentive.

–          Budget for electricity and water is clearly understood.  They know how long each appliance can be used to keep within the budget.

–          Cell phone usage is strictly charged to each one’s personal allowance.

–          Recreational activities are chosen so that they are not costly.

Some Recreation and Family bonding moments:

–          Quality and good quantity of bonding time of  5 hours with the kids – chit chatting, laughing and a lot of horsing around at the cost of PhP45.00 – a deck of cards!  They learned/re-learned and played various card games from 10 pm to past 3 am on a weekend.

–          No eating out.  They each know how to cook.

–          freesbie playing in the park (many free parks including Luneta and UP Sunken Garden

–          play a low-cost sport together like softball, basketball, garden badminton, hulahoop, yoyo,etc.

–          movie watching at home instead of the malls

If your family does not live with you, you might consider sharing these with your spouse back home.  Ask them to start implementing some of it even in your absence.  When you go home for a vacation, make sure that you sit down for a serious discussion to make a personal financial plan involving your family. Then, you can truly say that your whole family is one in clarity of purpose for your sacrifice living in a foreign land.

ORGANIZE FINANCES before and after WORKING abroad

You are probably already working abroad.  But you might still welcome a review of all the right things you did and know what you could do to correct mistakes of the past. For readers who have not yet left, this is the chance for you to get ready.

It has been my advocacy to concentrate on teaching financial literacy to income-earning Filipinos.  Fortunately or unfortunately, as an Overseas Filipino Worker (OFW), you are in the majority of Filipinos earning substantial regular income.  I am quite blessed to have been and continue to be able to get to know many of your problems related to financial literacy up close.  It gives me a real sense of accomplishment to be able to assist you in understanding the need to save and to grow your savings so that you may be financially independent when you come back for good to our country.

In the first place, the reasons why you or at least most of OFWs leave their family and go abroad is a combination of the following and not necessarily in order:

1) Lack of appropriate jobs for you locally.  You might have had job opportunities in the Philippines but if you have technical capabilities, you could get a better paying job abroad.  The sense of accomplishment is also a very important part of your life.  If you lose that feeling, it can be very depressing and the nagging thought that you could have done better in life will haunt you till you grow old.

2) Want the experience and adventure abroad.  There is nothing wrong if you are not really there for the sense of accomplishment but for the thrill of being alone abroad and living a different life.  This is true especially if you are still young and single. Hopefully, you can combine work and pleasure.

3) Want for better pay.  I can’t say much more about this.  Everybody wants better pay whether in the country or outside.  I hope you carefully analyzed your net pay.  I hope you don’t fall into the group who thought they were getting higher pay in another country but cost of living and other expenses related to moving away actually gave them a net pay lower than what they would be receiving in the Philippines.

Based on my and the Colayco Foundation for Education (CFE) Team’s personal experience in dealing with OFWs, it seems that at most, only 10-20% would know how to manage and grow their money.  This same ratio probably applies as well to those who stay and work in the Philippines. Personal money management, or applied wealth management is not really taught in schools.  It’s only now that we are seeing our advocacy in promoting financial literacy (personal finance) being brought to schools. A group, which includes CFE is working on an institute to precisely educate teachers who teach finance and economics in investments and personal finance. One of the key and immediate objectives is to reverse the prevailing counter-productive mindset among the earning classes, i.e., the mindset of the “here and now”- the seeming drive to live their chosen lifestyle immediately at any expense up to and including borrowing beyond their means.

Pre-Departure Fundamentals

Before you even leave the country, first and foremost, you should have a personal financial goal.  You should know exactly:

1) How much you are worth today.  You need to make your Personal Statement of Assets and Liabilities and Personal Income & Expense Statements.

2) You should agree with your family left behind what their budget should be and be ready to send only that and no more. Your family should not be tempted to thinking that they can now spend as much as they want just because their OFW is earning in foreign currency.

3) Remember that in making that family budget, you should follow the formula INCOME-SAVINGS= EXPENSES.  It is important that you not only keep some money for your personal expenses abroad but also some savings for yourself

4) You should try your best to follow the 80-20 rule.  You should live within 80% of what you earn and save 20% of your income for your future capital.  If you can’t save 20%  you can start even with 1%.  You just have to get started and feel that winning experience. This will hopefully get you to develop that saving habit.

5) Learn what options you have for saving both here and abroad. You should not just send everything to your family and relatives.  In fact, it is better that you make arrangements for direct placements of your investments with financial institutions before you leave.  In your working country, on the other hand, you should find out the safe methods of keeping your savings.  If you feel confident about investing there over the long term with a reputable financial institution, you could do that.

Your whole end goal should be to come home “for good” with enough saved so that you can sustain a fairly comfortable financial life with your family.  These goals have to be quantified over specific time periods.  You need to monitor your progress and thus should regularly update your personal financial plan.

You might become so homesick and start believing that you have enough saved and that you can easily find a job or business when you come home.  You might start believing that what you have saved will tide you over until you find the job or business.  Unfortunately, many times this might not be a realistic assumption so be very careful

If you still need a job, you should be relatively sure you have that job before coming home for good. If you dream of getting into business, you should prepare for the business that you intend to get into.  You should prepare together with your family in identifying what business you will get into, thoroughly study the identified business and have a complete plan in how to set it up and start operations.  Ideally, the business should already be running even before you give up your job abroad. You can start to prepare for this by working on plans each time you come back for vacation.

One of the better ways to do this is to look into franchise businesses that fit your goal.  In some cases, Franchisors can provide active management of the business in the start-up year.  This way, you or his family member can be taught how to run the business on-the-job. There is no better way to prepare and train than going through this kind of hands-on training.

Typical Back-For-Good Situations

When you are finally home in the Philippines, you could be one of those who say they cannot adjust to the new life.  Most of the time, it is because you realize that what you have saved is not enough.  This is so because it usually is taking you longer to find a job or to think or put up a new business or maybe your lifestyle has just changed.  In this case, your only choice really, is to cut down on expenses drastically until you are able to settle down.

Those who have lived in the Philippines all their lives know that setting up businesses can lead to a lot of frustration especially since the choice of business should be dependent on the passion of the person, interest, size of market and sufficient funding.  To all the OFWs and those who want to be OFWs out there, always remember the saying that “The grass is always greener on the other side.”  Examine your options well whatever side you are in now before making important decisions to uproot yourselves and move overseas or to come back home.

Post Script

With today’s global financial crisis, the challenges are even more pronounced.  Economies of practically every country are melting down.  New investments are not happening and all are trying to conserve whatever cash and assets they have.  Worse, credit is very tight such that even ongoing good businesses are hard put to maintain, much less expand their operations. What is the bottom line of all this? Be practical. Hold on to your jobs for as long as possible.  Don’t rush into starting up new businesses.  The rule of the day is to conserve your assets and avoid risks.

Armand Bengco on Love and Money

Money matters are important in loving relationships. Poor financial management is a big reason why couples break up and families fall apart. Being able to easily and comfortable discuss money, income and wealth matters with your partner and children may just save your marriage and family.

Develop ease and comfort in talking about money, income and wealth with your partner and your children. Couples and families should have quality conversations about money matters.

If you are in the dating and boyfriend/girlfriend stage, understand how your partner feels, views and manages his/her money. Does he or she buy things at a whim? Does he or she save regularly? Does he or she have insurance? And other things. You don’t need to know the specifics of how much he or she earns but just understand enough to see if you can work with his/her style of financial management in the long run.

Once you have decided to become life-long partners, are engaged or are in the early stages of your marriage, you can get into the specifics of who does what in managing your family’s finances.

Set your budgets as a couple. Be honest with each other especially regarding debt, acquisitions and any and all money transactions.

Work out between yourselves who will MANAGE and who will DECIDE on money-income-wealth matters. Share the responsibility for your financial future with your spouse. Come up with mutually agreed upon rules about spending limits. Decide on what you can agree on as “mine”, “yours”, or “ours”.

Part of communicating is agreeing on your immediate family’s goals – education, kind and cost of lifestyle, retirement, big ticket acquisitions, etc. As early as you can, start planning, saving and investing for these things.

If you have children, don’t wait till they are working till you discuss money with them. Once they start asking you for things they want to buy you can already introduce them to good money concepts. Take them with you when you go shopping, explain why you choose this brand of shampoo over the other brand.

Another important note about families in the Philippines – the EXTENDED FAMILY matters especially because we often extend our help to our families. Often, even after marriage, couples feel obligated to help out the family they were raised in, their parents and siblings and sometimes even cousins or even as far as the 2nd or 3rd degree of consanguinity. As Francisco J. Colayco often reminds; “you can not share what you do not have.”

So secure your immediate family first – the one you are raising with your partner. Agree on what and how much to share with parents; siblings, etc. Agree on why – what’s the purpose or the reason why you are giving financial help. By agreeing on these things beforehand you won’t have to keep secrets on how help was given. There is a thing called money infidelity too.

A family is like a corporation too. Corporations existence is to earn, make profit, grow and expand. Recently, CSR-corporate social responsibility or giving back to the community is becoming a part of corporate life and existence. The same is true for a family-earn, make profit, grow, expand and give back. Just remember – you cannot share what you don’t have.

Conversations about money with loved ones don’t have to be difficult or embarrassing. They don’t have to be often or take a lot of time but it should be honest and objective. Involve as little emotion as possible – sabi nga “Maski masaya, hindi dodoble ang pera. Magalit man, hindi mababawasan ang utang.” Respect your partner’s opinions and suggestions and think rationally.

Oh and just a last tip! Avoid talking about personal finances during meals and in your bedroom – use those situations to build meaningful relationships with your partner and family.


Edited by Guita Gopalan